Friday, November 06, 2009

Mina's (Our) Progress

Mina is now in a Nursing Home/Rehab place. She has been there for 2 days and she seems to be accommodating to the place.
It takes me at least a 1/2 hr. to get there. It is in Pico Rivera in a place with a unlikely name Riviera (Italian not Spanish). Most of the residents there are Spanish speaking which makes it a bit hard on both of us though we really don't mind as the staff is pretty cooperative and friendly. Mina was seen by a physical therapist today who put her in a sling and had her exercise her arms.
She is not allowed to step down on her feet or jump around on one foot either as he doesn't want to risk harming her major injury to her ankle on the right foot. Mina likes the food or she has liked it so far. So one down and who knows how many to go. The place is quite a distance from Long Beach and I would have preferred her being in Long Beach but she needed special care that this place offers. I think Mina's poor body has been through the mill but her spirit is good. In a way, it is Mina who keeps me going. I am doing the bills now, something I always hated doing but they are online now so I kind of like that part. I keep making phone calls trying to catch up with things at home. It is hard work going to see Mina every day and also taking care of the busywork Mina usually did. Wow, Mina really did take good care of me. I plan to return the favor in more than one way. Sometimes I get very tired but one good thing is I am actually losing weight, about 22 lbs. so far. I am very overweight so I see this as a good thing. I don't think I am losing too fast. It has been over the past month or a bit less. I think it is because I am expending more energy than usual and also eating much less. A great combination. So for now all is as well as it can be.

Sharon Raphael

2 comments:

beahaven said...

I experienced a similar weight loss when my spouse had her big operation. Lack of sleep, erratic hours and disrupted eating patterns take their toll. I found it necessary to schedule at least 7 hours sleep so I could handle the increased activity.
Mina is lucky to have you taking such good care of her.

sharon raphael said...

Thanks Bea. I appreciate your input. I am calming down now and getting into a routine of taking care of Mina and taking care of myself. Today I contacted my CalPers LTC policy to start the claims process. For now Kaiser via medicare is covering her care. She will be in the nursing home at least another week or so.

Sharon